We could not have been successful in an attempt to build an aqueduct without the help of all the local villagers. The men made it a community project, lending a hand when they could. The women, too, would visit us and bring us drinks after working under the hot sun all day long. One young man, Elvi, worked harder than all four of us combined — we would always see him toiling toward our final goal. Without him, and many of the others who helped us, this project would not have been possible.
It was also these same villagers who welcomed us into their homes to sleep. They became our families, and we referred to our hosts as our “mother” and “father.” They called us their “niños” or “children” in Spanish. When it was time for us to return home, Joe’s adoptive mother took him into her arms and almost refused to let go — reflecting the strength of the bonds we had created.
I feel truly blessed to have grown up in such a free and democratic nation as the United States, but realize my fortune is not a gift I can take for granted. My parents, faith, and belief in the Ignatian concept of being “a man for others” have all taught me that with great power comes great responsibility. It is my duty as a human to use my opportunities — a sound mind, a healthy body, an education, and a loving family — to better the lives of those who are not as blessed. By helping the poorest of the poor, we can truly pay back for the life we have been blessed to live. Prep provided us this opportunity. Next summer, another group of seniors will once again take up the cause and return to the Dominican Republic and fulfill the concept of being “a man for others."
For more information about Somos Amigos, please contact Kevin Buckley.
This story originally appeared in the Fall 2008 issue of Alumnews.